In this busy world in which we live, it is common to find either the spouse or your lover or the wife traveling, in a conference, attending to a very important meeting, engrossed in the matter of a subsidiary of the company that is in another city or in another country. Many times, the person who is traveling also has his/her own needs that need to be satisfied. And here comes the problem.
It is clearly advised that we must have “self-control.” The Apostle tells us that self-control is a fruit of the Holy Spirit. However, especially for men, we know how many temptations they suffer and what happens to them when 10 or 12 days have passed and they have not had sex with our partner. But the desire for intimacy is not exclusive to man. The woman would also need privacy, especially if her trip is very long. Against this background, comes the question which everybody asks about:
Is it a sin to have phone sex or popularly known as “sexting” with your beloved?
This is not an ethical or moral issue. If you think opening, it’s really simple. Although when you have not made a phone call, in particular, to “have phone sex or talk about sex on phone”, it can be understood that it is one of those tendencies of the modern world and the couple.
The clear opinion is that this is not a sin. Having sex with his wife through intercourse (penetration) or masturbation alone or with a companion, especially in a case where the girl is menstruating, about to give birth or receiving some medical treatment that does not allow guys to get along and perform any sexual intimate activity. Also, you might not see why you could not excite the penis or vagina until there is ejaculation or climax.
Not a sin but a series of expressions:
Moreover, phone sex is just about expressing sexual desires and does not have any controlling command on each other. They can express their intimacy by just talking with each other and let the partner understand the temptation and needs of the body without him/her. It is said in the holy book (Bible) that sex is only limited to relationships of marriage.
But phone sex is something very natural and gratification of your desires. It will also teach you many things such as how you can know what exactly your partner wants as he/she opening express it.
Also, there are arguments where you can assume that sex is only for reproduction. However, often women can no longer have children after 50 years and yet their sexual relationship is very pleasant and complacent for many years yet. So having phone sex chat with your partner, when you are separated, is also much better than going to a prostitute or giving yourself to pornography in the hotel room where you host and actually create a mess for your relationship. As the Americans say, “It’s no contest”! It is just about expressing.